My [31/F] placement supervisor [late 50s/F] passed me, yet also harshly criticised me personally. What should I do?

2022.01.18 13:16 RelevantSpend1524 My [31/F] placement supervisor [late 50s/F] passed me, yet also harshly criticised me personally. What should I do?

Hi everyone,
I am on a health promotion placement at a not-for-profit organisation as part of a masters degree in psychology to train as a psychologist. The placement is entirely research-based. My supervisor is a psychologist and academic. I also have two other members of my supervisory team, but they are not psychologists, and therefore cannot provide direct supervision.
I had my mid-point review today, and passed. My supervisor was very complimentary in the mid-point review, but was otherwise quite rude. I made notes after our meeting to record as much as I could remember.
I should note that I have only met the team three times because of covid. Our communication is normally via Zoom or email. I find them to be quite inconsistent communicators in comparison to previous people I have worked with. I have, however, worked with my supervisor on the National Executive of a professional association.
My supervisor said I always seem anxious, and that someone said, "she seems so anxious!" But she can't tell me who said that. I have only worked closely with the team of three. I have only had passing contact with other staff members.
She said "everyone" notices my anxiety, and I leave "seeds of anxiety" everywhere I go. To prevent me leaving another seed of anxiety, she said she would prefer to return my mid-point review to the team, when this is meant to be my role.
I should point out that I have a substantial hand tremor, but she knows about it, and they do too. She works with patients who have parkinson's disease, so I don't think this is the issue.
I asked how my anxiety has presented itself and what she has specifically noticed because I have not been aware of it, and I have not been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder. She said she can't tell me because it would destroy me and make me more anxious. I told her that there's nothing I can do about it if she won't tell me, and she said she isn't obligated to tell me.
She asked how old I was. I told her, and she said she was a mess at my age as well. I don't consider myself a mess. She said she can't help me with it and I need to sort it out with a therapist, but I still have no idea what she's referring to. She reflected that perhaps what she was noticing was the result of my physical health issues.
She did reference some boundary issues. I was diagnosed with uterine cancer in November, which is mostly under control now, but at the time I had to take some time off placement. She told me I crossed boundaries by talking about it, and I was insensitive to talk about it when she was driving to meet her dying mother. Her mother's death and my diagnosis did unfortunately collide.
She was very sanctimonious throughout the conversation, and said she had really hesitated to have this conversation with me. She winced and put on a very sad face. She said I really am a caring, lovely, smart person who is going to make a wonderful psychologist, and she doesn't want to make me more anxious. It made me feel very uncomfortable.
I am also having issues with one of my placement tasks. At the beginning of my placement, she gave me a very broad topic to write about. I have written 5000 words, and said I would like some feedback before continuing. I also said I would like to define the audience, style and purpose of the paper, but she said she wants me to finish writing it first.
She also, however, said it is mostly "guff". Most of my seniors in the past have said I am good writer. I don't really feel like writing more if it's mostly guff, and I don't even know if it's on mark.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this situation? I feel humiliated.
Many thanks!
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